Hints and Tips


What did I do wrong?

This is a normal beginner's question. The guy who tries to do everything right, but the woman seems to detect even more problems all the time. Forget asking that question. If you ever do something wrong, acknowledge it and don't give any more energy to it, forget it.

Women seem to be guided by their feelings. They might feel bad that their purse is not matching the color of their shoes, and so they totally forget what they had decided the other day. You'll never find out exactly what happens in the head of another person, so don't bother. If you want to change their opinion on something, then simply do something that will change their emotions first, like go for a fast car ride or something, and then talk about it. Forget logical arguments.Take care!



The "Micro Moment"


Have you ever found yourself thinking if a girl is attracted to you? If you should go on and make your move etc?

There is a little thing, that you can train yourself to recognize every single time. First of all, if a woman stays there and listens to you for some time, then she wants you (or something from you). What else did you expect her to do? To wear a T-shirt with your face on it? (don't worry if this doesn't help).

Now, no kidding, starts the lesson: Have you ever returned a girl home, and when it was time for her to get out of your car and leave, she hesitated a little bit? Maybe 2 seconds? Have you also ordered something and the waitress looked at you a little bit more than normal before she left? Well my friend, this is what I call the "micro moment".

It is when a woman wants or expects something more of you (hint!) but she doesn't have the guts to do something to move things forward. So she waits, her body waits, but her "social" mind makes her "behave", act normal again, so that she won't seem "easy", or even slutty. You know what is said about these girls (girls mind).

So, train yourself to recognize this. You're gonna need it.



The Code

Can you understand if a guy is successful with women by the way he walks, moves or talks? It's not so difficult if you begin looking for this kind of thing. Romantic movie heroes are good training wheels if you have no idea what I'm talking about.

If you can (more or less) sense the difference between a boring geek and a "ladies man", understand that a woman can sense this thing multiplied by 10, it's  in her genes.

So! If you were really successful in that field, how would you walk, move or talk differently? Think about it for a moment.

Adios!